Happily

8 Commitments of Couples Who Laugh, Love & Last

Kevin A. Thompson

Book 02 · 2017

Happily

8 Commitments of Couples Who Laugh, Love & Last

Happy couples are not luckier than you. They are committed to eight specific things, and the list is shorter than you think.

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Revell · 2017

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The idea

We talk about lasting marriages the way we talk about the weather — as if some couples simply got a better forecast. They did not.

The couples who still laugh together after thirty years made a set of decisions, and they made them again every year. Those decisions are learnable. None of them require a personality you do not have.

This is the list, one commitment at a time, with what each one costs and what it protects.

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What you will actually get

  • Eight commitments

    The specific promises that separate couples who last from couples who quit.

  • What each one costs

    Every commitment asks for something. Knowing the price up front is half the work.

  • Where couples break

    The predictable places these commitments fail, and how to catch it early.

  • Starting from behind

    What to do when you are years into a marriage that never had these.

Who it is for

Written with these readers in mind

Newly married couples

Set the terms before habits harden.

Couples at a turning point

An empty nest, a job change, a hard year.

Anyone rebuilding

Eight things to work on, in order, instead of everything at once.

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About the author

Kevin A. Thompson

Kevin is a teaching pastor at Bayside Church, where he oversees Married Life Ministries across nine locations in California. He is one of the more widely read voices in America on marriage and relationships.

A frequent guest on Focus on the Family and Family Life and featured in the New York Times, he holds a Master of Divinity from Beeson Divinity School at Samford University. He and his wife, Jenny, live in Auburn, California, with their two children.

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