In My Favorite Things the Haters Say, I wrote that the accusation “you’re just stirring the pot” often has the reverse influence on me than what my critics hope. They say, “You’re just stirring the pot.” It’s not the statement that is odd, but that assumption behind it. They act as though the pot doesn’t need to be stirred. I’m not much of a cook, but thankfully I married one. On occasion, as she is cookingContinue Reading…