Oh, if only it were that easy. Imagine if we could just choose to never be victimized. Some believe it is possible. They think if a person is smart enough, strong enough, and good enough, nothing bad will ever happen. So if something bad does happen, it must be a sign the person did something wrong. (See: What a Drunk Girl Deserves) It creates a double victimization. A person is victimized by a perpetrator andContinue Reading…